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The path through the woods…
You already carry more insight than most rooms will ever need.
The real question isn’t Do I have enough to say?
It’s Can I take people somewhere valuable without getting lost in everything I know?
Philip Pullman answered that question years ago in one of the clearest metaphors I’ve ever heard about storytelling.
In his essay “The Path Through the Wood” (from Daemon Voices), he describes every story as two things happening at once:
The path — linear, purposeful, going from here to there. It has direction. It knows where it’s leading.
The wood — the rich, wild, endless world that surrounds the path. Full of fascinating trees, side trails, history, data, context, and “what ifs.”
You can (and should) make the wood as lush and alive as you like. But the storyteller’s only job — the thing that keeps the reader turning pages — is to stay on the path.
If you step off to admire every interesting tree… the reader puts the book down.
Sound familiar?
We’ve all watched (or been) the woman on the panel or in the all-hands who starts with a sharp point, then feels the need to prove her depth. She brings in three more examples, the full history of the problem, the tangential research, the industry stat that’s only mostly related… and suddenly the room is polite but checked out.
The expertise is real. The delivery just left the path.
This is why so many brilliant women still feel overlooked even when they do speak. It’s not that their ideas are small. It’s that the path got swallowed by the forest.
Why This Matters More for Us
In male-dominated spaces, the default assumption is often still that we’re here to add “the woman’s perspective” or “soft skills” color. When our talks wander, it quietly confirms the bias we’re fighting: She’s nice, but not quite crisp enough to lead the technical conversation.
When we stay on the path? Everything shifts.
The audience experiences the journey with us. They arrive at the insight alongside us. They leave thinking, “She knows exactly where she’s going — and she took me somewhere useful.”
That’s how credibility compounds. That’s how one talk turns into the next invitation. That’s how visibility starts translating into promotions, thought leadership, and real influence.
How to Build Talks That Stay on the Path (Starting This Week)
1. Name the destination before you pack anything else.
One sentence. The transformation you’re offering.
Not: “I’m going to share thoughts on scaling AI responsibly.”
Yes: “By the end of this, you’ll have a 3-question filter to catch ethical risks in your model pipeline before they become expensive regrets — and the exact language to get buy-in from skeptical stakeholders.”
That sentence is your path. Everything else either illuminates it or gets parked for another day.
2. Gather the wood — then edit like your credibility depends on it.
Brain-dump every story, failure, metric, diagram, and “cool thing I learned the hard way.”
Now ask of each item: Does this help the audience move forward on the path right now, or is it a beautiful side trail?
Side trails become excellent LinkedIn posts, follow-up resources, or your next talk. Not this one.
3. Let the audience glimpse the wood from the path — never step off.
The richest talks don’t dump the forest on people. They offer vivid, specific glimpses that make the journey feel real and textured:
One sharp story that shows why the stakes matter.
One unexpected data point that makes the “how” click.
One honest failure that proves you’ve actually walked this ground.
THE RUN
🎬 This week’s 20-minute bias-for-action move
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Pick one speaking moment you already have on the calendar (even a 10-minute team share-out or a conference proposal you’ve been avoiding).
Write the single-sentence path.
List the 3–4 wood elements that must stay to make the path vivid and believable.
Cut or move the rest.
Then deliver it and notice how much more grounded and powerful you feel — and how much more the room leans in.
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